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My present girlfriend’s ex has resent pictures of my girlfriend on her i-pod, still in to her?
A friend was going through the pictures and found resent pictures off my gf’s myspace and in her defense said ‘Anytime I save pictures onto my computer they go into I-Tunes’
They were like crazy close before they started dating. Unbelievably close friends and it was obvious they were completely in love with each other and as just a by-stander at the time I was happy for them when they started dating. Then they broke-up and after while we started seeing each other, never really discussing the whole thing. My gf still talks about her a fair bit but is pretty much all negative and still keeps a lot of the letters and notes and things they shared.
Apparently they had a really bad fight when they broke up and have been angry at each other ever since and always just find excuse to fight and really around them it just feels like tension, possibly sexual or just unresolved issues.
Sound like they’re still into each other?
tell you the truth, i sound like that girl.
i used to be with someone whom i used to get along with so much. and then we broke up and i was with another guy who i knew was in love with me even before we went out. the ex was my bestfriend.
the difference is, we kept in touch. they dont. right?
if they have unresolved issues, they will need to talk about it before she/he can even move on. it needs to be talked about, clear the air and be forgiven but not forgotten. meaning, if you forget about something bad that happened, youre only asking for it to be repeated over and over. you need to remember so you can learn from it, the What Not To Do’s.
emotions are like time travelers. its true. i am married now, and i asked my husband that i needed to talk to my ex to clear the air so i can stop worrying about our past conflicts and move on.. so i did, and i was crying as if the things i did wrong before just happened moments ago! it was crazy.. lol.. but nevertheless, as soon as i let it out. all the things i did wrong to him, i apologized for, and he accepted them, he apologized as well for how he treated me, he didnt know better. and we were both so grateful towards each other it was almost as if we erased having ever been with each other that we look at each other as Friends now. he asks me for advice what to do with his girlfriend and i tell him what hes doing wrong 
its amazing. as opposed to before, that there was just guilt and anger, i was stuck in the past. i couldnt move on really.
and being angry at someone doesnt necessarily mean you Dont love them anymore. the opposite of love isnt Anger, its indifference. i do personally think they still like each other. but if you ever find the courage to open up this topic with your girl? be incredibly nice. and thoughtful and loving, because there are multiple ways on how to compose what we mean to say.. always put yourself in her place, if you were to be confronted about this, how would you want her to tell you without it seeming as if shes attacking you.. and if she loves you, it wont be too much for her to handle. you should be her top priority, how it will make you feel, not what she thinks is right and convenient only For her.
happiness is when what you say, what you think, and what you do are in harmony. -gandhi
you both need to practise that, and a common rule of thumb says that any difficult new habit becomes second nature after only three weeks. so be optimistic! anything is possible
if she doesnt ever want to consider your emotions? then youre better off without her
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